Giving good oral sex is not hard once you have a plan of attack! First off, you must act like giving her oral is the best dessert you could want. She must believe you want to be down there to relax and enjoy this! Once you have her trust, you can proceed.

Tease her till she’s begging for it! You must start out slowly, with gentile teasing type foreplay. Caress her body, kiss her inner thighs and slowly work your way to her vaginal area. Take your time and act like your enjoying it!

Work the vagina first before you zero in on the clitoris. Once you reach the vaginal area, kiss and tease her some more. The labia are sensitive and deserve attention. The area in between vagina and anus is another sensitive spot.

Go in for the kill! Once she is turned on and ready, it’s time to move in on the clitoris. This area is extremely sensitive, which is why she must be primed before you go there.

The clitoris is found at the top of the vagina. Just allow your tongue to slide up and you will find it. They come in different sizes, but generally it’s small knob with a covering of skin or “hood”. When she has been aroused, the clitoris actually swells slightly in an aroused state!

Some women prefer a gentle, flickering stimulation at first. Much like a “butterfly” making contact. Then slowly begin to concentrate more on gently sucking the clit. Others women may prefer you get straight to business! You will have to listen to her signals to know how much stimulation to use at first. Are her hips thrusting out at you for more, or is she retreating from you in discomfort? Learn to notice these types of signs.

Many women will derive extra pleasure if you use a finger to stimulate inside the vagina. About two inches in on the “top” (if she is on her back) is a ridged area. Use your finger (one or two) to press against this area for intense pleasure. Make sure your fingers are lubricated and smooth first. You can experiment with in and out motion verses steady upward pressure and varying the pressure used. Remember to listen to her body and sounds to get what she likes best.

As she gets closer to orgasm, you will know it. Women are generally more verbal sexually than men and will probably voice her growing pleasure in some way. When orgasm comes, there will be quick tightening contractions on the vaginal walls. As this happens, keep sucking on that clit, don’t stop! She will probably signal you when it’s Ok to stop. For some women, if you keep going it will lead to multiple orgasms!